tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39986422035680252782023-11-16T07:46:43.709-05:00Da Kani Ma Chaser?Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.comBlogger166125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-22064399104600127242010-12-30T14:03:00.003-05:002010-12-30T14:12:19.771-05:00Parshas Vaeira: That's Gratitude For Ya<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiB0ia5cElGaaUlDpdZVYpPxcrviO5cJnjuRs71FJcHk0mjpvuaxscxBci95dr54DzRLtaZ70_514VqYhgrDpvBmMI0rNrL9bnY6gLdQTRtcYDwmCwpUnc0ilJj6q6_whhaYzW2jDdlanEc/s1600/moses_infrontof_pharaoh.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 219px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiB0ia5cElGaaUlDpdZVYpPxcrviO5cJnjuRs71FJcHk0mjpvuaxscxBci95dr54DzRLtaZ70_514VqYhgrDpvBmMI0rNrL9bnY6gLdQTRtcYDwmCwpUnc0ilJj6q6_whhaYzW2jDdlanEc/s320/moses_infrontof_pharaoh.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5556555035114253554" /></a><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">Each <a href="http://www.ou.org/public_affairs/politics_parsha">week</a> IPA Deputy Director of Public Policy Howie Beigelman takes a look at the weekly parsha and discusses it in a way you may never have seen. Any hashkafic, halachic or political opinions are personal and do not reflect the official psak or policy of the OU.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Vaeira 5771: That's Gratitude For Ya</span><br /><br />Pharaoh may have been evil, but nowhere in Jewish tradition is he described as foolish, naive or stupid. <br /><br />Are we really to believe that Moses, surreptitiously arriving in the Egyptian palace as an infant cared for by the Pharaoh's daughter, raised as her son (and as <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000229/">Steven Spielberg</a> would later put it, <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120794/">Prince of Egypt</a>) attracted no royal notice? That Batya's hiring of a Jewish wet nurse was immaterial to the king's spies? That the timing of the baby's appearance - at the height of a royal decree of infanticide - was brushed aside as coincidence? <br /><br />So the king allows Moses to grow up in his home, feeding him, clothing him, and presumably educating him. He attends royal family gatherings with his adopted mother, benefits from the protection of the palace guard, and has the king's courtiers serve him. When Moses kills an Egyptian - a government employee no less - and escapes to Midian, Pharaoh allows bygones to be bygones. There is no extradition request made and no squad of Egyptian Marshals are sent to bring the fugitive to justice.<br /><br />Imagine then the Pharaoh's utter embarrassment when the rebel leader arrives for the requested parley and in walks the man he raised as his own grandson. <br /><br />How is that for gratitude? What lesson does Jewish tradition hope this teaches us? Because, Jewish tradition makes much of the fact that the Lord instructs Moses to instruct Aaron to perform the first plagues - turning the Nile to blood, bringing forth the frogs and transforming sand to lice. G-d was teaching and Moses was modeling the Jewish value of gratitude, hakarat hatov. Left in a rickety basket on the river until found, the Nile played a role in Moses' rescue. The sand too, with which Moses covered the body of the Egyptian taskmaster he had slain, had done Moses a service. It would have been ungrateful to then turn and use them as basis for plagues. <br /><br />But the entire lesson collapses of its own weight. The Nile and the sand aided Moses. Therefore, he must show them gratitude and not punish them, misuse them or mistreat them, even if the plagues were G-d's will, and one would think, Moses would be doing the Nile and the desert a good turn by bringing them in on it. If so, Moses mere presence before Pharaoh is an affront to basic gratitude. <br /><br /><a href="http://www.cmgww.com/historic/twain/">Mark Twain</a> said that "The proper office of a friend is to side with you when you are wrong. Nearly anybody will side with you when you are right," but perhaps that isn't the Torah's view on things. Perhaps the greatest gratitude one can have for someone they care for or respect is to tell them they are in error. Moses knew the only way Pharaoh would save his kingdom, his country, his throne, is to free the Jewish people. Moses was giving Pharaoh the advice - and the chance - he needed. <br /><br />Sometimes elected officials, dictators or other leaders surround themselves with "yes men." People who either tell them what they want to hear or refuse to challenge their leadership, publicly or privately, with a different view, the potentially unnoticed consequences to action or inaction. But true friends and employees, volunteers and servants who truly care are those who will tell you there's a better way or there's something you're not considering. If they are particularly close - or particularly loyal - they will zero in on why you are making the error, and point out a deep seated personal flaw that's made a blind spot for you. <br /><br />Everyone needs those friends. Friends to tell leaders when it's time to move on, or step down, to tell parents when to let go, and children when to grow up. And everyone needs to be those friends, risking friendship for it, and if you are <a href="http://www.eyewitnesstohistory.com/becket.htm">Thomas Becket</a>, for example, giving your life for it. We need them - and need to be them - at work, at play, at home and in our community institutions. <br /><br />And while being that "ingrate" requires courage - especially when the object of our advice can fire us, imprison us, or worse, sometimes the greater courage comes from hearing such no holds barred words and taking them to heart.<br /><br />At least one strain in the Jewish tradition thinks Pharaoh, somewhat late, may have learned his – and this – lesson. After the defeat at the Sea of Reeds, Pharaoh eventually becomes king of the City-State of Nineveh, the people to whom Jonah initially refused to offer total truth. But when Jonah finally lives up to his need to tell them the truth, it is the King of Nineveh who descends from his throne, dons sackloth and orders every man and beast in the city to fast and avert tragedy.Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-1275168764315738322009-12-03T16:04:00.003-05:002009-12-03T17:06:40.719-05:00Parshas Vayeitzei - "Going On The Right Path"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqH7bjufzHSHRR17OYSA_iFD3gS0wZVYx7sR3tzVzbTPCWpzkqN2F2OIMtzg56PKzcJTKoI76P0A-6Z2DrVYdGdRUZxeHt9lGhGieSOPAHsK2goJSKrMv2k9O3ps2urC0hVlbYp2S0EmxD/s1600-h/path.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 317px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqH7bjufzHSHRR17OYSA_iFD3gS0wZVYx7sR3tzVzbTPCWpzkqN2F2OIMtzg56PKzcJTKoI76P0A-6Z2DrVYdGdRUZxeHt9lGhGieSOPAHsK2goJSKrMv2k9O3ps2urC0hVlbYp2S0EmxD/s320/path.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5411134714637724610" border="0" /></a>
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After spending 20 frustrating years of his life working for Lavan, Yaakov flees Haran with his family in search of a better life. Upon learning of Yaakov’s escape, Lavan follows in suit while accusing Yaakov of stealing his idols and animals. After having a peaceful exchange of words, the Torah ends the story using very interesting language. The Torah says, “V’yashav Lavan Limkomo.” “And Lavan went back to his place.” What does it mean that Lavan “went back”? Where was he? Why doesn’t the Torah simply say, “And Lavan returned to Haran”?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">Rabbi Dovid Rosenbaum </b>of the<b style=""> Young Israel Shomrei Emunah </b>in<b style=""> Silver Spring, Maryland</b> offered some beautiful insight on this story. Rabbi Rosenbaum related that, throughout Lavan’s life he had been exposed to many important people. In his youth, he met Eliezer the servant of Avraham. He had grown up with Rivka and lived with Yaakov for twenty years. Nevertheless he continued along his dishonest path. This is what the Torah means when it says, “V’yashav Lavan Limkomo.” After spending a substantial amount of time with Yaakov and his family, Lavan simply went back to his regular lifestyle. He refused to introspect about the encounters that he had with Yaakov in order to better himself as person. </p> <p class="MsoNormal">On the flipside, the Torah tells us that “V’Yaakov Holach lidarko” “Yaakov continued on his way.” Rabbi Rosenbaum explained that after Yaakov had spent nearly twenty years of his life living in the home of the wicked Lavan, he remained steadfast to maintain his religious observances and convictions. He refused to be swayed by the waywardness of his father-in law. It is for this reason that the Torah specifically chooses to use these terminologies of “V’yashav Lavan Limkomo.” and “Yaakov Holach Bidarko.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">In our lives we have many regular encounters with extraordinary people. The story of Yaakov and Lavan teaches us that instead of going about our daily lives with blinders on our eyes, we should try to take in all of these encounters, and learn from them. We must feel comfortable with who we are as people and religious Jews because only through this can we be leaders and “Holach Bidarko” like our forefather Yaakov. </p> <input id="gwProxy" type="hidden"><!--Session data--><input onclick="jsCall();" id="jsProxy" type="hidden"><div id="refHTML"></div><input id="gwProxy" type="hidden"><!--Session data--><input onclick="jsCall();" id="jsProxy" type="hidden"><div id="refHTML"></div><input id="gwProxy" type="hidden"><!--Session data--><input onclick="jsCall();" id="jsProxy" type="hidden"><div id="refHTML"></div>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-19363357630366380502009-04-24T17:31:00.005-04:002009-04-24T17:37:45.179-04:00New! Kosher Dining Guide<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqaMEvytDg5J_fKWbdCFZF1icxIl93uxslvEMRWwxdnwsz3BnFFotycFySNZn3FQ0vGDKAnUp6CF1oLXmJ9BcBAnNlsxBTHO7zhX5f2Aj8tbygfcKS1GmzcvwYp42P17pVgxl5uJGIa0kP/s1600-h/dining_guide.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 184px; height: 90px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqaMEvytDg5J_fKWbdCFZF1icxIl93uxslvEMRWwxdnwsz3BnFFotycFySNZn3FQ0vGDKAnUp6CF1oLXmJ9BcBAnNlsxBTHO7zhX5f2Aj8tbygfcKS1GmzcvwYp42P17pVgxl5uJGIa0kP/s320/dining_guide.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328374667389276274" border="0" /></a><br />Have you ever been hungry while traveling on the road but not known where you could find Kosher food?<br /><br />Gone on vacation with your family and not known which Kosher restaurant to go to?<br /><br />Look no further!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.jewishupdates.com">Jewishupdates.com</a> has just added a <a href="http://jewishupdates.com/category/dining-guide/">Kosher Dining Guide</a> to their new beautiful and comprehensive website. <input id="gwProxy" type="hidden"><!--Session data--><input onclick="jsCall();" id="jsProxy" type="hidden"><div id="refHTML"></div><input id="gwProxy" type="hidden"><!--Session data--><input onclick="jsCall();" id="jsProxy" type="hidden"><div id="refHTML"></div>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-55158114165603789082009-04-06T02:07:00.003-04:002009-04-06T02:11:29.881-04:00URGENT!!!!!!!!!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNy3mnT1KOSTgM_NRkKG5n9onz1GAyq4uLSGehdKHS4H-te6pbGxdyLPClrYyOxhuYuPdlGnmPNAHdCHIMsy21yGIlzLNwpp7BnO_K0FxXeZ-MmqDmVTWAZ8233jYOPnViPoHemoFxpESU/s1600-h/tehillim21.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 292px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNy3mnT1KOSTgM_NRkKG5n9onz1GAyq4uLSGehdKHS4H-te6pbGxdyLPClrYyOxhuYuPdlGnmPNAHdCHIMsy21yGIlzLNwpp7BnO_K0FxXeZ-MmqDmVTWAZ8233jYOPnViPoHemoFxpESU/s320/tehillim21.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321456886312332802" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">David Rottenstreich</span>, who is currently studying at Yeshiva University, was rushed<br />suddenly to the hospital late last week after an infection suddenly spread in his body. He is currently on life support.<br /><br />Everyone is asked to please daven for <span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Dovid Chaim YOSEF ben Sima Perel</span>. A<br />Tehilim sign-up list has been posted at <a href="http://dovidchaim.blogspot.com/">THIS SITE</a>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-53709079980759134612009-04-01T10:38:00.004-04:002009-04-01T10:44:39.232-04:00The Wicked Son<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyoHPge4eIZigiE52dSNPiOc_7XN74hJUiFOXXtTktB_LxsSgQObFDqKKnQ82YzllHtliRcuNbqQKjUl4nXkdB-JneF7GSAGGgqtoVgMvWZV1o5e1ACS7BwDRhQob81Lm4hceHK2Zurjhi/s1600-h/4sons.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 257px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyoHPge4eIZigiE52dSNPiOc_7XN74hJUiFOXXtTktB_LxsSgQObFDqKKnQ82YzllHtliRcuNbqQKjUl4nXkdB-JneF7GSAGGgqtoVgMvWZV1o5e1ACS7BwDRhQob81Lm4hceHK2Zurjhi/s320/4sons.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319732927412014642" border="0" /></a><br /><span class="fullpost">The Haggadah discusses four sons and provides answers for each. It is curious that the response to the wicked son is not the verse associated with the question. The <span style="font-weight: bold;">Vilna Gaon</span> explained that we don’t answer the wicked son; anything we say to him will only make matters worse. However, we have to provide an answer to all the other people at the table who heard the wicked son ask his question. We cannot let his challenge of Jewish tradition stand without a response.<br /><br />* From a recent post on <a href="http://hirhurim.blogspot.com/">Hirhurim</a><br /></span>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-40590677188588264522009-03-30T17:19:00.005-04:002009-04-01T10:59:10.294-04:00May Woman Recite Birchas HaChama?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnm24eB9vihRQkegcEyFh9H8RLcN_WWKwwb9JsU8Tnu0OkyhCFmqBui7mug-JmdCcntoMH45cjM1bAwf0DBN-EQpBGyyea9JncMr-ywnw3zSiRBWPXxBpc4FnDOzTJcQDVbWIQsSNHdgr3/s1600-h/sunrise.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 198px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnm24eB9vihRQkegcEyFh9H8RLcN_WWKwwb9JsU8Tnu0OkyhCFmqBui7mug-JmdCcntoMH45cjM1bAwf0DBN-EQpBGyyea9JncMr-ywnw3zSiRBWPXxBpc4FnDOzTJcQDVbWIQsSNHdgr3/s320/sunrise.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319093950659932162" border="0" /></a><br />There is a <em>mitzvah</em> to recite the <em>bracha</em> of <em>Birchas Hachama</em> once every twenty-eight years, when the sun and moon return to the exact position in the sky in which they were placed at the time of creation. This phenomenon will occur this year, on April 8th, <em>Erev Pesach</em>. <em>{Shulchan Aruch w/Mishnah Brurah 229:2, Mes. Berachos 59b}</em> <p>The <em>bracha</em> to be recited is the same as said when one sees lightning: <em>“Boruch Attah <span id="more-4804"></span>Hashem Elokeinu Melech Haolom, Oiseh Maaseh Bereishis</em>.” {<em>Shulchan Aruch w/Mishnah Brurah 229:2}</em></p> <p>There is major disagreement amongst the <em>poskim</em> as to whether women are obligated, or even permitted to make this <em>bracha</em>. For <em>Ashkenazim</em>, many women rely on the <em>p’sak</em> of the <em>Chazon Ish</em> and the <em>Maharil Diskin</em>, who permitted women to make the <em>bracha</em> with the name of Hashem. For <em>Sefardim</em>, however, the <em>Ben Ish Chai</em>, and more recently Rav Ovadia Yosef, rule that women should not make the <em>bracha</em> on their own. Rather, they should answer <em>Amein</em> to the <em>baracha</em> made by a man.</p> <p>{<em>Birchas Hachama (citing Chazon Ish), S’U Maharil Diskin 2:KA:5:26, S’U Yechave Daas 4:18, Ben Ish Chai Parshas Eikev 19, S’U Minchas Yitzchok 8:34, S’U Chasam Sofer OC 56, S’U Ksav Sofer 34}</em></p><p><span style="font-style: italic;">* From <a href="http://matzav.com/">Matzav.com</a></span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">UPDATE: I had the privilege of <a href="http://yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/733623/Rabbi_Zvi_Sobolofsky/Birchas_Hachama_%28YU%29">hearing </a>a shiur about this yesterday from Harav Tzvi Sobolofsky Shlit"a. Unfortunately the article above neglects to go into the detail of the machlokes between those who say that woman should or should not recite Birchas Hachama.<br /></span></p><p>I strongly recommend listening to this shiur to understand some of the Halachik implications of this uncommon occassion.<br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"></span></p>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-88154974967027926132009-03-29T19:59:00.004-04:002009-03-29T20:04:34.142-04:00Sportsmanship<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMtfAzr0CtQfcDH1yn9sDZhKZYYiX8AJ0X3RAyn6uPz56-0kOlg-Bmd57hKajfw5foQG0lnwHxDpFC3rbHQz7E9DwLW0Mt30wk2rMdwuW8sz_C7dwnXVVguKoxUL_R8FTV5ar8qEXrMHPB/s1600-h/RealSports230x150.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 230px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMtfAzr0CtQfcDH1yn9sDZhKZYYiX8AJ0X3RAyn6uPz56-0kOlg-Bmd57hKajfw5foQG0lnwHxDpFC3rbHQz7E9DwLW0Mt30wk2rMdwuW8sz_C7dwnXVVguKoxUL_R8FTV5ar8qEXrMHPB/s320/RealSports230x150.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318764953543623378" border="0" /></a><br />This past week I received a beautiful email from a Rebbe of mine (Rabbi Dov Lipman). In it, he left a <a href="http://www.aish.com/societyWork/arts/Real_Sports.asp">link </a>to an article that had written on aish.com. In his interesting way, Rabbi Lipman will often take sports scenarios and transfer them into meaningful lessons for us as growing Jews. Fortunately for Rabbi Lipman, the scenarios which he details in this piece required little to no explaination.Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-24940480494970832962009-03-27T16:21:00.004-04:002009-03-27T16:28:19.045-04:00JEWISHUPDATES.com<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4e5PdsCM01fcjEMsDirixa2kGj9jF48kWUDdDSd_CJkMUgG1ay0H9h3mtXEvAO-jLEK5FJB6QJrh8oVlW40v_AGWqU7rqJvyKql2lwk_p8s_E0FvFbElNKofjI5TNQ-3smjKfsyyG2Nd-/s1600-h/JU_logo.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 62px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4e5PdsCM01fcjEMsDirixa2kGj9jF48kWUDdDSd_CJkMUgG1ay0H9h3mtXEvAO-jLEK5FJB6QJrh8oVlW40v_AGWqU7rqJvyKql2lwk_p8s_E0FvFbElNKofjI5TNQ-3smjKfsyyG2Nd-/s320/JU_logo.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317966940711401938" border="0" /></a><br />I would like to bring to your attention a new Jewish news outlet called <a href="http://www.jewishupdates.com/">JewishUpdates.com</a>. It is a compilation of links from all of the major US and Israeli Jewish news sites. Instead of surfing the web looking for Jewish news, Jewish Updates brings all of the news to you in one simple click.<br /><br />Please feel free to share this website with your friends and family and have a restful Shabbos.<br /><br />REMEMBER: <a href="http://www.jewishupdates.com/">JEWISH UPDATES</a>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-31656582413628137042008-12-28T00:40:00.002-05:002008-12-28T00:44:16.411-05:00Jelly Donuts – With a Fork and Knife???<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrWIIgtDb-dbdTRrDndOysDc9PKx9W_C5N-gj-_NX1SKHaxo9qVZmqLnui2mPPqfsGEu_HkIqy2CkJyhX9YuIPoNXVobm5vUF5_6xD0ELANmPWgwvwtY61eDsaFADpLy9gFEmggYmaGO5x/s1600-h/jelly+doughnut.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrWIIgtDb-dbdTRrDndOysDc9PKx9W_C5N-gj-_NX1SKHaxo9qVZmqLnui2mPPqfsGEu_HkIqy2CkJyhX9YuIPoNXVobm5vUF5_6xD0ELANmPWgwvwtY61eDsaFADpLy9gFEmggYmaGO5x/s320/jelly+doughnut.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284712505615883762" border="0" /></a><br /><span class="heading"><br /></span><p> The <span style="font-weight: bold;">Elya Rabbah</span> writes (170:11) that one should use utensils to eat with and refrain from using their hands. Additionally, one should refrain from taking large bites of food and make sure not to get any food particles caught in their beard or on their clothing. The Elya Rabbah concludes by stating all these guidelines should be followed even when one eats alone in his home. </p> <p> The <span style="font-weight: bold;">Piskei Teshuvos</span> writes (170:11) that if it is accepted by the general public to eat a certain food with one's hands (i.e. jelly donuts, bagels, or pizza), there is nothing wrong with eating without utensils. However, the Piskei Teshuvos quotes others who say that it is best to be stringent in this area and always use a fork and knife.<br /></p><p>Courtesy of <a href="http://revach.net/article.php?id=3176">Revach.net</a><br /></p>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-55517429250736144412008-12-20T20:27:00.006-05:002008-12-20T20:39:57.336-05:00B'LEV ECHAD<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8eZ6IRVSWM3YFOtPg5GudYhF_hL29Rqmn4rjL15f3b56ssLm25FY2vwJ2Hm7DnXXR00QwdLdvTlXtgHWtMoYnZjOEZBsiA515O9F3s4I8utUP3UKcRMlpneYjWkAaLiEncJ-WK0CvTYF9/s1600-h/BlevEchadPoster.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 247px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8eZ6IRVSWM3YFOtPg5GudYhF_hL29Rqmn4rjL15f3b56ssLm25FY2vwJ2Hm7DnXXR00QwdLdvTlXtgHWtMoYnZjOEZBsiA515O9F3s4I8utUP3UKcRMlpneYjWkAaLiEncJ-WK0CvTYF9/s320/BlevEchadPoster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5282050201610807586" border="0" /></a><br />In light of all of the terrible things that have happened in our holy community-- I strongly urge everyone to get involved in this beautiful effort to bring achdus and Torah to our nation.<br /><br />Learn Torah for Klal Yisroel!<br /><br />Do Mitzvos for Klal Yisroel!<br /><br />Do Chessed for Klal Yisroel!<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING</span>:<br /><br />IS YOUR SCHOOL OR COMMUNITY SIGNED UP FOR A HISTORIC CELEBRATION OF JEWISH UNITY?<br /><br />On February 24th 2009 (Rosh Chodesh Adar), the first yartzeit of the Mercaz Ha'Rav massacre, eight sifrei Torah will be dedicated in honor of the eight boys and young men who<br />were killed. Jews all over the world will unite to commemorate and celebrate<br />these students and the Torah to which they were so committed. The event will<br />take place in Jerusalem while schools, yeshivot, college campuses, and<br />institutions around the world participate in this event via a live<br />broadcast. The event will also conclude a worldwide learning initiative and<br />worldwide mitzvah project.<br /><br />*This event will be an unprecedented celebration of unity as schools and<br />communities all over the world come together as one. Sign up your school or community. Sign up as a volunteer. RIGHT NOW at<a href="http://%20%20www.blevechad.com/" target="_blank"> <span id=":s"></span></a><a href="http://www.BlevEchad.com">www.BlevEchad.c<wbr>om</a><br /><br />Please post comments to this post if you have any questions about this project or are interested in volunteering.<br /><br />Tizku LiMitzvos!Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-79484546672312273682008-12-19T11:08:00.003-05:002008-12-19T11:13:16.638-05:00Parshas Vayeishev - Q & A<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9jerp9zm7KixudL8VZll5PQiIU312Uqr1sEr-iVQGbi4djsGnM3p9j3IqXuxEjzWnQrPrJTl4zwV4QIJtwTydBmy50cJfUkfJpkCIbus5ao5V0I8bVS_bvf5PgVcLZda4uCQJLBYVbeeI/s1600-h/yoseffront.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 274px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9jerp9zm7KixudL8VZll5PQiIU312Uqr1sEr-iVQGbi4djsGnM3p9j3IqXuxEjzWnQrPrJTl4zwV4QIJtwTydBmy50cJfUkfJpkCIbus5ao5V0I8bVS_bvf5PgVcLZda4uCQJLBYVbeeI/s320/yoseffront.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5281534779460859026" border="0" /></a><br />1)Why does the Torah use the root SHAV (VAYEISHEV) to describe Yaakov living and GUR (MEGUREI) to describe his father living? (37:1)<br /><br /><br />2)Reuven never told his brothers that his plan was to rescue Yosef from the pit. What, then, could Reuven have meant when he discovered that Yosef was missing and he proclaimed, AND I, WHERE WILL I GO? (37:30)<br /><br /><br />3)Why does the Torah interrupt the narrative about Yosef with a seemingly unrelated story, specifically about Yehuda? (chapter 38)<br /><br /><br />ANSWERS<br /><br />1)The Kli Yakar explains that SHAV refers to a more permanent dwelling while GUR is more temporary. Yitzchak viewed his dwelling in this world as completely temporary and he never felt at home in this world. Yaakov's mistake was desiring a more permanent and comfortable dwelling in this world as captured by the use of SHAV and this led G-D to bring him struggles and challenges which eventually uprooted him and forced him to live in a more temporary manner.<br /><br /><br />2)The Ohr HaChayim answers that Reuven was saying that now that Yosef is gone, he, as the first born would be asked by Yaakov to search the world for Yosef. Had Yosef been killed by an animal in the pit as appeared to the brothers to be Reuven's plan, then they could simply bring the dead body to Yaakov. But now that Yosef is missing, Reuven asks, WHERE WILL I GO in the search which Yaakov will demand of me? This is why Reuven was pacified with the plan to dip Yosef's coat into the blood which would stop Yaakov from asking for a search.<br /><br /><br />3)The Seforno teaches that Yehuda, as a leader of the tribes, could have saved Yosef by convincing the brothers to simply return him to Yaakov. Instead, Yehuda led the brothers in the selling of Yosef into slavery thereby causing Yaakov years of grief and sorrow with Yosef missing. G-D punished Yehuda immediately for this and two of his sons die in this chapter. Thus, this interruption in the story shows G-D's attribute of justice at work.<br /><br />*Courtesy of Rabbi Dov Lipman Shlit"a<br />*Picture from yosefdreams.comIbn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-78302302718682164442008-12-14T11:31:00.003-05:002008-12-14T11:33:38.587-05:00Q & A on Parshas Vayishlach<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAgycxInPrcDj94xjCwaw9zvvM3dNO69wtgC1tzK2FLGodSQlx2E2aS76KGIfLAp1vxeK_MHkEk5fecjam-tHXu5T9a5fhNXw6xtGThZouFeFp4D7SV7JbOuhutLmV9fa1yGLZvFl8zCZS/s1600-h/question+mark.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 283px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAgycxInPrcDj94xjCwaw9zvvM3dNO69wtgC1tzK2FLGodSQlx2E2aS76KGIfLAp1vxeK_MHkEk5fecjam-tHXu5T9a5fhNXw6xtGThZouFeFp4D7SV7JbOuhutLmV9fa1yGLZvFl8zCZS/s320/question+mark.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5279684748534388530" border="0" /></a><br />1)G-D has related that the Jews will be like the stars, the sand, and the dust. Why does Yaakov choose the symbolism of the Jews as sand when praying to G-D prior to his encounter with Eisav? (32:13) <div> </div> <br />2)The Torah teaches that since Yaakov was injured in his thigh, THEREFORE Jews should not eat the GID HANASHE. (32:33) Why should we refrain from eating this part of an animal simply because Yaakov was injured? What message or lesson can this possibly convey?<br /><br /><br />3)Why does the Torah bother relating that the city was named SUKKOT because Yaakov built booths (SUKKOT) for his animals? The name, itself, seems meaningless and it certainly seems to be lacking any eternal message!<br /><br /><br /><strong><u>ANSWERS<br /></u></strong>1)The Kli Yakar teaches that the symbolism of the stars captures the times in history when the Jews are the dominant force in the world. The dust captures when we are suffering immense persecution and dark exile. The sand refers to those times when we are being persecuted but where G-D steps in and provides salvation. The ocean water threatens to wash away the sand but then recedes with the tide. Since Yaakov is about to face Eisav which presents a danger to him and his family, he evokes this image of the sand, with the hope that G-D will save them from this time of difficulty.<br /><br /><br />2)The Da'at Zakainim MiBaalei HaTosafot explain that Yaakov was left open to the attack because he was left alone. The Jewish people were negligent and left someone unaccompanied and this resulted in the injury. Thus, we refrain from eating that part of the body to remind us of the importance of the mitzvah of not leaving people unaccompanied.<br /><br /><br />3)The Ohr HaChayim answers that at this time and place, Yaakov became the first person in world history to build shelter for his animals to provide them with comfort. This extra level of care and concern was worthy of being captured in the name of the city and it certainly teaches us a lesson about the importance of caring for all living thing.<br /><br />* Courtesy of Rabbi Dov Lipman Shlit"aIbn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-80147881348762496412008-12-08T21:49:00.003-05:002008-12-08T21:53:42.707-05:00Michael Medved: Chanukah<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9OnEKN4IG9PmpSeUCPfk2HtgIW4HO7MKLkKhc76Eu1pmjDVOxNkHXD9Qy5TiV7jJO7relgdKkRVkYJXatPZmmE8xQw7gKOAlmq5TQxrsMBkEQFN9CStyFt3nf4lYKIbe-84YXB1WUeZNM/s1600-h/chanukah.gif"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 284px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9OnEKN4IG9PmpSeUCPfk2HtgIW4HO7MKLkKhc76Eu1pmjDVOxNkHXD9Qy5TiV7jJO7relgdKkRVkYJXatPZmmE8xQw7gKOAlmq5TQxrsMBkEQFN9CStyFt3nf4lYKIbe-84YXB1WUeZNM/s320/chanukah.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277617900419375170" border="0" /></a><br />I happened to have been going through my daily blog searching routine when I happened upon the following blog post on <a href="http://townhall.com/">Townhall.com</a>, a political online publication. It was written by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Medved">Michael Medved</a>:<br /><br />In this holiday season, Americans hear lots of talk about “Hanukkah” but most Christians—and most Jews, for that matter—don’t know what that word actually means. No, Hanukkah doesn’t mean “Festival of Lights,” or “Festival of Tolerance” – the Hebrew word means, simply, “dedication.” It refers to the re-dedication of the Temple in Jerusalem in 165 B.C., after its desecration by Hellenists who worshipped Greek Gods in the shape of men. The holiday calls for our re-dedication to resisting secularism and assimilation, and recommitting to God’s commandments. The word “Hanukah” has the same root as “Hinukh” –education—emphasizing that there’s no meaningful education without dedication to divine truth. At the darkest time of each year, the glowing candles of Hanukkah signal dedication to bring light to a world that too often worships men, instead of God.Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-56922781376257126742008-12-03T23:51:00.001-05:002008-12-03T23:51:56.704-05:00Heroes of Mumbai<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><p><object height='350' width='425'><param value='http://youtube.com/v/SDySSOWYI1g' name='movie'/><embed height='350' width='425' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' src='http://youtube.com/v/SDySSOWYI1g'/></object></p></div>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-83855996394977082502008-12-03T23:43:00.001-05:002008-12-03T23:48:43.175-05:00Mumbai....Let's Make a Difference<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij1CQqFlMuz6HBm5GXtp_i-zBBMbAVR0TK2XImSFENGU0e3lpncWxbl0gP4KS-K_jLt4dj_I_c55M3qRmX7o6ccgeB5mSC2NW_FObUVUSaMgqGzSDq9EtbJfiUtW-b_Hott5W8-SZioJW_/s1600-h/chabad.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 260px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij1CQqFlMuz6HBm5GXtp_i-zBBMbAVR0TK2XImSFENGU0e3lpncWxbl0gP4KS-K_jLt4dj_I_c55M3qRmX7o6ccgeB5mSC2NW_FObUVUSaMgqGzSDq9EtbJfiUtW-b_Hott5W8-SZioJW_/s320/chabad.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5275792132774994370" border="0" /></a><br />My Dear Fellow Jew,<br /><br />On Wednesday night I logged onto Reuters on my Blackberry and I saw<br />something about terrorists in Mumbai. No connection to me. Or so I thought.<br /><br /> The next morning the news slammed home when my chavrusa told me that his<br />cousin is the Chabad shaliach in Mumbai and that there was some kind of<br />attack and they can't seem to get him on the phone.<br /><br />For the next 24 hours I, my family and everybody I know had only one thing<br /> on our minds - the fate of the Chabad shaliach, his wife and the unknown<br />number of hostages inside the Chabad house.<br /><br />Information was so conflicting. We tried to make sense of it all, grasping<br />at straws, hoping against hope that somehow, somehow they would come out<br /> alive. And we davened. Hundreds of thousands of Jews. We all poured out<br />our hearts in Tefilah in every country, city, neighborhood, yeshiva, shul<br />and home. An unprecedented outpouring of Tefillah.<br /><br />And then the news came that the counterattack had begun and commandos were<br /> storming the building. How we sat on edge, imaging in our mind's eye the<br />commandos fighting room to room…through the bullets and the explosions…<br /><br />And while all this was going on I thought to myself…<br /><br />"Ribono Shel Olam, look at your amazing people. Hundreds of thousands of<br />people gripped by fear, davening for people they never knew and from<br />sections of Klal Yisrael that they don't belong."<br /><br />Last Thursday it didn't matter if you were Chabad, Bobov or Toldos Avrahom<br /> Yitzchok. OUR brothers were in that house and we reacted instinctively -<br />with the love of brother.<br /><br />And so I wonder, my dear brothers and sisters:<br /><br />Imagine we could always be this way!<br /><br />…Imagine we walked in the street and gave a smile and a Sholom Aleichem to<br /> every Jew, even if he didn't look like we did.<br /><br />…Imagine there was a way we could hold onto the incredible Ahavas Yisrael<br />that was displayed this past Thursday, that showed we are one nation!<br /><br />Yes, I know. I realize it's not so simple because tragedy has a way of<br /> uniting people – but it's not impossible! Consider this:<br /><br />If there wasn't Ahavas Yisrael in our hearts in the first place we wouldn't<br />have reacted so powerfully and instinctively with nonstop Tehillim…We<br /> woudn't have listened to the news 20 times that day!<br /><br />If we can just shake loose of the yetzer hora that pushes us to be<br />divided…If we just took a good look in the mirror we would see that under<br />that tough exterior we are all really Ohevi Yisrael - lovers of Jews.<br /><br />My Rav spoke about Mumbai yesterday. He quoted an excerpt from the sefer<br />Amud HaAvodah. This is a quote from the sefer:<br /><br />"It is a fact that when Yidden in one city hear that tzaddikim in another<br />city have been tortured and killed by gentile murderers, the Yidden in the<br /> first city are certain to be terribly pained and anguished. Even if they<br />had never known them. Even if they had never seen them. Their hearts ache<br />upon hearing of Jews killed with cruelty.<br /><br /><br /><br />This phenomenon is rooted in the unity of the souls of the Jewish people.<br /> This is indeed a proof to the existence of this unity.<br /><br />And so now the horrific truth of what happened in India has become revealed<br />to the world. My brother died in that Chabad house as did yours…<br /><br />…and the immense Ahavas Yisrael that we Jews have for each other was<br /> revealed - to the world, and more importantly to ourselves!<br /><br />But we must not let this event slip by like a ship in the night!<br /><br />Let's each make a kabalah – a personal resolution - that starting right now<br /> we and our family will take something on that shows we care about every<br />single Jew.<br /><br />Not just lip service - but a real goal. One that we write down and post in<br />our house, tell our friends about, and monitor weekly to see how we're<br /> doing.<br /><br />For instance:<br /><br />…Maybe we should work on the way we greet tzedakah collectors at our door –<br />you know, put ourselves in their position of having to knock on a<br />stranger's door…<br /><br />How we would we like people to greet us?<br /><br />…Or maybe to really daven for specific people from our shul for their<br />childrens shidduchim or livelihood. And certainly to work on not speaking<br />loshon hora about individuals and certainly not sections of Klal Yisrael.<br /><br />Hashem thrust the kedoshim who died in India on the stage of Jewish history<br />for a few days last week. But their impact can last a lifetime i f w e a<br />c t!<br /><br />The last few months have seen major calamities befall the world at large.<br /> They are affecting – and could further affect - Klal Yisrael very<br />profoundly.<br /><br />Let each Jew as an individual and as a family take on one resolution - a<br />single kabbalah - of Ahavas Yisrael, so that in these trying times Hashem<br /> will look down at us and see the love we have for each other. The love<br />that proves we're a family. His family. And with that impetus may Hashem<br />redeem His children from all the tzoros and bring us, as the one family<br /> that we are, to our home in Yerushalayim.<br /><br />Let's just do it NOW! Please pass on this letter to as many people as<br />possible so together we can keep the flame of Ahavas Yisrael burning.<br /><br />With a sad but hopeful heart,<br /><br /><br /><br />Chofetz Chaim Heritage FoundationIbn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-64189423076276885622008-11-30T10:28:00.005-05:002010-10-27T10:17:03.249-04:00Parshas Toldos - "Bless me FATHER"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_vsKnTJE8PVX1gZitqsxFO7BknxkwjHMH-1UOqnOhIKW3Kvuf5A-dR1jh0-FavKPPi7EoNGDCwD3IQe7b_y8j7vha4bgc9M4-k99h_GprEzHw25eSjpK3zi0hZ_kiYE_mPfGL9I1rsKuS/s1600-h/bible_jacob_esau.gif"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 262px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_vsKnTJE8PVX1gZitqsxFO7BknxkwjHMH-1UOqnOhIKW3Kvuf5A-dR1jh0-FavKPPi7EoNGDCwD3IQe7b_y8j7vha4bgc9M4-k99h_GprEzHw25eSjpK3zi0hZ_kiYE_mPfGL9I1rsKuS/s320/bible_jacob_esau.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5274473997862498914" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-family:Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Q: Why does the Torah mention that Yitzchak was Eisav's father, (27:39) a fact which is quite obvious from the entire story until this point?<br /><br />A: </span><span style="font-family:Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The <span style="font-weight: bold;">Ohr HaChayim </span>teaches that Yitzchak had no plans to give Eisav a blessing at this point. However, upon hearing Eisav cry (27:38), Yitzchak's compassion for his son emerged and he decided to bless him. The words HIS FATHER explain why Yitzchak chose to give this blessing to Eisav.<br /><br />* Courtesy of Rabbi Dov Lipman Shlit"a<br /><span> </span></span>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-8182160484160961172008-11-15T22:09:00.002-05:002008-11-15T22:11:26.097-05:00Parshas Vayeira - "Open Door Policy"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyqvLhF78WnpHQKK11Si-iS_LhRzQPQQQgVT01o5nEe5EPc4Te-3WLtwCc5u1rLNjSY2gLrShuV7VXMoKLtpfsZXept5anmnvBuvCUDtn-EG-uI8hyZJy7FU8LY__j3_Bz1FFrnSIEACCk/s1600-h/Abrahams+Tent.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyqvLhF78WnpHQKK11Si-iS_LhRzQPQQQgVT01o5nEe5EPc4Te-3WLtwCc5u1rLNjSY2gLrShuV7VXMoKLtpfsZXept5anmnvBuvCUDtn-EG-uI8hyZJy7FU8LY__j3_Bz1FFrnSIEACCk/s320/Abrahams+Tent.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5269087699530104578" border="0" /></a><br />After Maariv on Thursday nights I usually meet up with a Lubavitcher friend of mine and we trade divrei Torah. This week he told me a very nice one bisheim the Lubavitcher Rebbe.<br /><br />He asked, why in Parshas Lech Lecha are Lot's guests referred to as angels, whereas in Parshas Vayeira these same angels are called men?!<br /><br />The Rebba beautifully answers that in the story involving Lot, the Torah refers to his guests as angels because that was the only reason why Lot invited them into his house, because of their prestige. By Avraham however, he was known for having a tent with four doors. His reputation was that of an ish chesed, therefore regardless of who his visitor was he was without a doubt going to bring them in. Not wanting to diminish Avraham's chesed it refers to his guests as "men" because Avraham would have brought anyone in need into his home.Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-42470572008465058492008-11-13T15:37:00.002-05:002008-11-13T15:38:58.477-05:00Parshas Lech Lecha - "Math of the Week"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwY0CQ_dFqDoOZjZqcbmi6rU9jb-7MdNGqvdnUOXVRyhA6V6yfFpO_oQS5NCBfVQOR7V6T_66WisXTEpp79_iqGQzDAwjkonJQeR5DeaooG2xQd9vxG-4HzdE8Jkd-8QlZyqiYuVAq4NpC/s1600-h/math.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 290px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwY0CQ_dFqDoOZjZqcbmi6rU9jb-7MdNGqvdnUOXVRyhA6V6yfFpO_oQS5NCBfVQOR7V6T_66WisXTEpp79_iqGQzDAwjkonJQeR5DeaooG2xQd9vxG-4HzdE8Jkd-8QlZyqiYuVAq4NpC/s320/math.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268244359664768866" border="0" /></a><br /> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">The Baal Haturim</b> says that the first words in Parshas Lech Lecha are foreshadowing what is to come at the end of the Parsha. At the beginning of this weeks Parsha we are introduced to Avraham and his many fascinating characteristics but he seems to be missing one thing, fatherhood. After years and years of searching and looking for meaning in his life he lacks the one thing that he wants most, a child. </p> <p class="MsoNormal">The Baal Haturim tells us that the words Lech lecha in this weeks Parsha hint to Avrahams eventual bracha of becoming a father. If one were to add up the words lech lecha. It would equal 100 which is the age at which Avraham was zoche to have Yitzchak. The problem is however that Yitzchak was Avraham’s second child not the first!? He answers that that too is hinted to in the words “Lech Lecha.” If we count up the nekudos (dots equaling 10 each and lines equaling 6) then they add up to 86, which was Avraham’s age when Yishmael was born.<span style=""> </span></p>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-38657606705312493462008-11-13T15:34:00.002-05:002008-11-13T15:37:13.002-05:00Parshas Noach - "Bon Apetit"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik5RR7Bx4wlkrzIl3Eyid7lMfKUrliI_WKgdQE4d1MBnUQcj4hq6wb-JY0WPp30DgwrXJlMLcSkoNrnTUzZ3j2mrFB-K7PERkgdG2QPAHr5ypmEsDurirV1RTv3nqErvO6eto_XXNWETHZ/s1600-h/shabbos+table.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEik5RR7Bx4wlkrzIl3Eyid7lMfKUrliI_WKgdQE4d1MBnUQcj4hq6wb-JY0WPp30DgwrXJlMLcSkoNrnTUzZ3j2mrFB-K7PERkgdG2QPAHr5ypmEsDurirV1RTv3nqErvO6eto_XXNWETHZ/s320/shabbos+table.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268243924520074786" border="0" /></a><br /> <p class="MsoNormal">In this weeks Parsha we learn of Noach’s teiva (ark). Noach takes his progeny with him onto the ark to seek a safe haven for them so they too will not be decimated by the tumultuous flood.<span style=""> </span>Noach did not go on the ark as a measure of panic, but strictly because Hashem told him too.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="">Rav Weiss from Kfar Roeh</b> writes that, on Shabbos we have a chiyuv to eat three meals. The first meal is on Friday night after a long week we are famished and looking forward to a delicious and warm meal. On Shabbos day as well, after a long Shacharis and Mussaf in Shul we are anxious to get home to fill our stomachs with the fine delicacies that have been prepared. The third meal however, is different from the previous two meals. It occurs shortly after the second meal <span style=""> </span>when our stomachs are full of food. Nevertheless we still eat this meal because Hakadosh Baruch Hu tells us to. Therefore we don’t call this meal Shalosh Seudos to reflect that even though it appears that we ate the first two meals in order to satiate our own palates we infact ate them for the same reason why we ate the third meal, because Hakadosh Baruch Hu asked us to. </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Just like Noach who could have used the teiva as a safe haven but instead enters it because Hashem tells us to. We eat our meals on Shabbos not only because we have delicious food but primarily because Hakadosh Baruch asks us to.</p>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-18690992024232992342008-11-07T10:53:00.005-05:002008-11-07T11:01:57.230-05:00Parshas Bereishis<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXhZhDIM5Wdxcql8TVrfGxir6Tq3EJas0_MIAI-BnKPE8pTEJKksK4oshd49mMNFiSOtoowXi9aQzEe33FjqTfmN_N7Q-WELq3Mh-ZhoSZpxi9W95vC7BgzwbjrZoAQxvrBlWcMulE0FEA/s1600-h/bereishis-full.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXhZhDIM5Wdxcql8TVrfGxir6Tq3EJas0_MIAI-BnKPE8pTEJKksK4oshd49mMNFiSOtoowXi9aQzEe33FjqTfmN_N7Q-WELq3Mh-ZhoSZpxi9W95vC7BgzwbjrZoAQxvrBlWcMulE0FEA/s320/bereishis-full.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5265945956902872594" border="0" /></a><br />Bereishis 1:1 "Bereishis Bara Elokim Es Hashamayim V'Es HaAretz"<br /><br />The the Lubavitcher Rebbe, poses the following question:<br /><br />Why does the Torah start with a "Beis" [Breishis]? Wouldn't it make more sense for it to start with an "Aleph"?<br /><br />In his introspective and profound manner the Rebba answers that the reason for why the Torah starts with the letter "beis" is because reading the Torah is the second thing that we are supposed to do. The first thing that we are supposed to do is reflect on the year past. We should internalize the Tishrei season that we just experienced and try to carry it with us into the coming year. Only once we have done that, can we restart the Torah by chanting the famous words, "Bereishis Bara Elokim Es Hashamayim V'Es HaAretz"Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-24691124972592505162008-10-04T23:42:00.004-04:002008-10-04T23:55:45.955-04:00Know The Words is Back!I would like to bring to your attention that after taking a brief hiatus for the summer CR and <a href="http://knowthewords.blogspot.com/">Knowthewords</a> are back!<br /><br />For those of you who have not had the opportunity to visit this site before I invite you to read a <a href="http://vortlach.blogspot.com/2008/04/new-blog-know-words.html">review </a>that I previously wrote about the site.<br /><br />CR has decided to dedicate his time in order to educate Klal Yisrael to make their Shiros and Simchos more meaningful and enjoyable.<br /><br />Kudos CR and I look forward to hearing of your future success.Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-11601886199143746262008-10-03T16:45:00.005-04:002008-10-04T23:41:25.290-04:00Parshas Vayeilech - "Grabbing a Helping Hand"<img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5253035804297276946" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlX3_PkbaSWAn9NcpP3a58qQ73zyC68hKOO5XOY6nNo8ebw9zq8IHZ4SpBT5b6pcqXO4FdkhnMeSHTtjwdG5HN3yEpmt7q9JOyjGvTZnehJe3X8GJrwMP1bgT7UonuKxtlomZ3KrA2-bUB/s320/HandShakeColor.jpg" border="0" /><br /><div><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">QUICKIE/FUNFACT</span></strong>: The Parsha begins by relating AND MOSHE WENT before speaking to the Jewish people. Where did Moshe go and why?</div><br /><div>The <strong>Ibn Ezra</strong> teaches that Moshe went to each tribe to inform them about his upcoming death. He too this extra step to provide them with the extra level of strength and courage he knew they would need to carry on with Yehoshua as their leader and without Moshe's presence. </div><br /><div>*Courtesy of Rabbi Dov Lipman Shlita - <a href="http://www.rabbilipman.com/">http://www.rabbilipman.com/</a></div><div><br /><strong>(Devarim 32:7) "...Ki Atah Tavoh Es HaAm HaZeh... - ...for you shall come with this people..." </strong><br /></div><div><strong></strong></div><br /><div>The above verse is contextually referring to Moshe's directions to Yehoshua. Soon Moshe is to expire and it will be Yehoshua's responsibility to go with them into Eretz Yisrael. Thus the Torah makes it clear that the role of Yehoshua when he enters into Israel will not be as a leader but as a civilian. </div><br /><div>Shortly after in Pasuk 23 however, Hashem tells Yehoshua, "for you shall bring the Bnei Yisrael to the land." This Pasuk seems to be emphasizing that Yehoshua will be responsible for taking Klal Yisrael into the land as a guiding figure. </div><br /><div>This begs the obvious question was Yehoshua's job description that of a regular citizen or one of leadership? </div><br /><div><strong>Rav Moshe Feinstein</strong> answers that it was Yehoshua's job to lead Klal Yisrael into the land of Israel but "one leader must seek advice in every matter from other leaders of the generation, the elders and the Sanhedrin." </div><br /><div>Hashem in fact taught us this lesson in (Breishis 1:26) when He says, "Let us make man." Rashi explains that Hashem consulted other celestial beings about the making of man. </div><br /><div>Hashem was telling Yehoshua that it is his responsibility to consult others in his legislative doings but as the Gemara in Sanhedrin (8a*) says, only one man can speak with authority in each generation, not two. </div><br /><div>Often times we are stuck in situations when important decisions have to be made. Unfortunately we do not hold an objective point of view on the matter which sometimes will draw us to take the wrong steps. Hashem's guidance to Yehoshua was in fact one for the generations. In a time of need it is essential that we grab a helping hand and accept an objective point of view so that we can make the appropriate decisions for our futures.</div><br /><div>* Maareh Makom from <strong>Mein Bes Hashoeva by Rav Schwab</strong> </div><br /><div>HAVE A FANTASTIC SHABBOS! </div><br /><div>As an aside, I saw in Rabbi Lipman's "Parsha Pointers to Ponder" that the <strong>Ohr HaChaim HaKadosh</strong> gives a different answer to our question by saying that Hashem was telling Yehoshua that he was simply the human leader and that it was entirely Hashems doing that they would make it into Eretz Yisrael.</div>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-77919686365822795332008-09-26T17:52:00.002-04:002008-09-26T17:55:35.555-04:00Parshas Nitzavim - "The World Was Created For Me"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhY0LsMqSTTsALDjqFmx12-rFlxbEHYuconO_Xa76i16luuFBXjZy35eYEJXUVX5oS_i2URBDd7-3WdA2T9y_X6i-YOJm-qiW4l291QBcDeyyR_fls-fTB8D-a1bpFHe_sZJBjDpKVJ6Xbk/s1600-h/globe.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhY0LsMqSTTsALDjqFmx12-rFlxbEHYuconO_Xa76i16luuFBXjZy35eYEJXUVX5oS_i2URBDd7-3WdA2T9y_X6i-YOJm-qiW4l291QBcDeyyR_fls-fTB8D-a1bpFHe_sZJBjDpKVJ6Xbk/s320/globe.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5250451972123006834" border="0" /></a><br /><br />I was talking to the famous Ben Yeamans today and he brought something very interesting to my attention. He told me that the <b>Sfas Emes</b> says that if this Shabbos is observed correctly it is michaper for all other sins that have been done on previous Shabbosim.<br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><b>QUICKIE/FUNFACT</b></span>: Why does the Torah say that we are responsible to listen to all that G-D teaches TODAY? (30:2)<br /><br />A: The <b>Seforno </b>answers that the word TODAY teaches that throughout all generations we must strive to perform mitzvot with a freshness and excitement as if they were given TODAY and never by rote.<br /><br />* Courtesy of Rabbi Dov Lipman Shlit"a - <a href="http://www.rabbilipman.com/" target="_blank">www.rabbilipman.com</a><br />(Devarim 29:9) "Atem Nitzavim Hayom Kulchem....Rasheichem Shivteichem"<br /><br />"You are standing today, all of you...the heads of your tribes..."<br /><br />The literal translation of the words "Rasheichem" and "Shivteichem" is is your heads, your tribes. This seems to be a rather peculiar language when referring to our leaders. Surely there is more graceful terminology of our lay leaders?<br /><br /><b>Rav Moshe Feinstein Zt"L</b> answers that it is forbidden for any person to denigrate himself by saying that because his talents are so minor, he cannot be a great man or leader; such humility is actually the evil inclination!<br /><br />Rather, every man must develop the self esteem to realize that he, too, can be a leader of his generation, and so he must learn the Torah in its entirety and in great depth with all of his ability. If man does his part the Hashem will surely finish off mans plan by instating him as one of the greats.<br /><br />If man chooses to belittle himself and says that he will never be great in Torah or at good deeds then as a slippery slope he will never learn Torah and nothing that he does will ever be suitable.<br /><br />For this reason the Torah chooses to write, "your heads, your tribes" instead of saying "the heads of your tribes" to show us that everyone must hold themselves in the highest regard and that everyone is capable of leadership.<br /><br />We must hold dear to ourselves the concept of "Bishvili Nivra HaOlam - The world was created for me" for without it we accomplish very little. We have outlived many of the greatest civilizations in the world. We hold the most Nobel prizes.It is this adage in addition to the help of the Ribbono Shel Olam which has made us, Jews, successful.<br /><br />HAVE A FANTASTIC SHABBOS!Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-90963275234767279942008-09-12T13:16:00.003-04:002008-09-12T13:28:28.452-04:00Parshas Ki Teitzei - "The Endless War"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLSSqtgCwSwTcAlOlfS0ClCyzAEH4CsuRHZaqm_n3USbKVDdZ5CfZb9DSN3m5Qea4O622SAg3pd01i31gAXVIoMf-u07BvjjuJKxrXGpKw2C_BROMriwYo-jZdSyXhIKgGveOfYAdmuZcp/s1600-h/The_Ten_Commandments2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLSSqtgCwSwTcAlOlfS0ClCyzAEH4CsuRHZaqm_n3USbKVDdZ5CfZb9DSN3m5Qea4O622SAg3pd01i31gAXVIoMf-u07BvjjuJKxrXGpKw2C_BROMriwYo-jZdSyXhIKgGveOfYAdmuZcp/s320/The_Ten_Commandments2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5245187681482756674" border="0" /></a><br /><p><b><span style="line-height: 115%;font-size:16;" >QUICKIE/FUNFACT:</span></b> Why does the Torah say the seeming extra word FOR YOU when it describes the soldier taking the yefat toar as a wife? (21:11) Of course if he marries her it will be FOR HIM!</p> <p>The <b>Kli Yakar</b> explains that this hints to the fact that there are going to be problems with the children which come from such a union and not a marriage from a true relationship. The marriage will be FOR YOU but it won't be beneficial to the children from that marriage.</p> <p>*Courtesy of R'Dov Lipman (<a href="http://www.rabbilipman.com/" target="_blank">www.RabbiLipman.com</a>)</p> <p><b>Devarim 21:10 "Ki Teitzei Lamilchama Al Oivecha, Unisano Hashem Elokecha Biyadecha VShavta Shivyo"</b></p> <p><b>"When you will go out to war against your enemies, and Hashem, your G-d, will delive him into your hand, and you will capture [its people] as captives."</b></p> <p>The above verse forces the reader to delve deep and truly ask themselves whether or not the pasuk is true. Fore we know all too well that there have been many instances throughout Jewish History (even dating back to Yehoshua in Ai) when the Jewish people have been entrenched in wars and have still suffered terrible defeats. So how come Hakadosh Baruch Hu is phrasing this pasuk as if it is a given that Klal Yisrael will win all of their battles?</p> <p>The <b>Baal Haturim</b> answers this question by telling us a message that we have heard many times but as the maxim goes - "it is easier said than done".<span> </span>Yaakov Ben Asher of Toledo Spain tells us that the answer to our success in battle entirely lies in our belief in the Ribbono Shel Olam. If we truly believe that Hashem will deliver our enemies into our hands then we are ensured victory. If not however, we are destined for failure. This can be derived by the juxtaposition of words from last week's Parsha to the words at the beginning of this week's Parsha. Parshas Shoftim ends with the words, "Ki Taaseh HaYashar BiEinei Hashem - For you shall do what is upright in the eyes of Hashem" <span> </span>while Parshas Ki Teitzei starts with the words "Ki Teitzei Lamilchama Al Oivecha -When you will go out to war against your enemies…." This integral juxtaposition is teaching us that the key to success against our enemies lies entirely in fulfilling what is 'upright' in the eyes of Hashem. </p> <p>Interestingly, the <b>Chofetz Chaim</b> writes that the introductory verse of this week's Parsha is not talking about physical battle but a psychological, philosophical, and physiological battle that occurs between man and the Yetzer Hara. Unlike physical battles which have a beginning point and ending point, the human battle with the Yetzer Hara is never ending.<span> </span><b><span> </span>Rav Asher Weiss Shlit"a</b> posits that we must battle the evil inclination with a steadfast conviction and an"earnest struggle" then Hashem will make sure to handle the rest. </p> <p><span> </span>As the days of Rosh HaShana and Yom Kippur approach us we must stop and think about even the most mundane of decisions. The Yetzer Hara is persistent and will not relent but Hashem promises us that as long as we do our part Hashem will, "deliver them into our hands".</p> HAVE A FANTASTIC SHABBOS!<br /><br />* Image courtesy of <a href="http://judaica-art.com">judaica-art.com</a>Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3998642203568025278.post-60333001208234963952008-09-07T13:45:00.001-04:002008-09-07T13:48:46.181-04:00Parshas Shoftim - "A License To Carry"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir7LEUJ4eL3eTFd5K_WFOMvZQIUPqxzTh9RNGa-fRpqe6Kyuf3Uh-kVWUb_9z8MvhfUKrtKnCGM2OhyphenhyphenvwNuotFAJCF003mSLrHtK1ZXlOep6DTjtkfAD7dLPOkTqHF74Sg16xsqmM4fvis/s1600-h/SimchatTorahSMALL.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEir7LEUJ4eL3eTFd5K_WFOMvZQIUPqxzTh9RNGa-fRpqe6Kyuf3Uh-kVWUb_9z8MvhfUKrtKnCGM2OhyphenhyphenvwNuotFAJCF003mSLrHtK1ZXlOep6DTjtkfAD7dLPOkTqHF74Sg16xsqmM4fvis/s320/SimchatTorahSMALL.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243337787488822514" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">QUICKIE/Funfact:</span> Why is the mitzvah of appointing judges and community leaders juxtaposed to the mitzvah of not planting an <i>asheira</i> next to the mizbeach. <b>Rav Meir Shapiro</b> (creator of the Daf Yomi movement) answers that just like the inside of the mizbeach is made out of dirt and the outside is made of copper, our judges should also be humble and wise yet stern and competent on the outside ready for judgement.<br /><br /><b>"V'Haisa Imo V'Kara Bo"</b><br />"It Shall be with him and he shall read it"<br /><br />When discussing the mitzvos that surround the institution of the Kingship and the King himself the Torah says that the King must have two sifrei Torah. One to carry on himself at all times and one that should be kept in his royal archives. At second glance however one realizes something very interesting with the introductory words of this Pasuk, "V'Haisa Imo V'kara Bo". The work V'Haisa has a feminine connotation while the words V'Kara Bo are male. Why is this so?<br /><br />The <b>Daas Zikainim</b> answers that the King would carry with him a single sefer Torah which in actuality only had in it the Aseres Hadibros. The entire Aseres Hadibros are composed of 613 letters which is the equivalent of all of the mitzvos in the Torah. Therefore it is called a Sefer Torah even though it is really only "one" Parsha. A single parsha is a feminine word much like the Eretz Yisrael is also nikaiva (feminine). Therefore the beginning of the pasuk is feminine because it is talking about the Torah that the King had on him at all times (10 commandments) while the second half of the pasuk is talking about the Kings (male) responsibility to read the second Torah which he keeps in his royal archives.<br /><br />HAVE A FANTASTIC SHABBOS!Ibn Mordechaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00409329204159059798noreply@blogger.com0